Clear the clutter in your life

I constantly have things that needs doing at home.

Laundry is constant headache with four children if I am not doing that I am cooking and cleaning.

Errands to run take boys to school, shopping etc. I spend time with the boys tend to their needs.

Now what I find is when the housework is piling up on me or not getting done quickly enough I get frustrated de motivated and just fed up. It affects my mood I feel under pressure to get things done, I won’t lie I have even waved the white flag and given up!

Once I get my housework done, once I run all my errands I start to feel as though I can breath, I start feeling as though I have accomplished something.

I instantly want to sit down with a glass of wine, a cup of coffee or a nice slice of cake. Or soak on a bath, have a bit of a pamper session.

I then feel as though I can take on the world.

My creative juices start to flow, I often will catch up on a show I like or read, make some calls or reply to that text I got a week ago. I might shoot a video or find some sort of me time.

Now let’s apply this to life and the clutter of emotions, the cluttered soul, the events of our life, negativity, toxic people, toxic things we allow into our minds and into our lives. The toxic foods we consume, the misinformation we read or hear and often share. The things we see or watch which is not feeding our minds, not adding value to our lives.

How can we expect to be productive, how can we expect to grow or evolve positively if we are living a cluttered life. Allowing the clutter of life to burden our minds, our body and our souls?

I am really focused right now on allowing positive energy in and I refuse to allow negative energy in.

I am sorry but there is no place for negativity here.

The same way that we work through our daily routine of keeping house, we must keep house within.

It is important to remember that you are as important as the daily tasks we take the time, pride in to carry out in our busy lives and treat every part of self development as a daily task!

Taking time to de clutter ourselves is important! You are important! Life is too short to forget to take time because time is not going to slow down or stop for us. Time wasted is a waste of life.

Natural Love πŸ’•

Know your self worth

The glow up is real! When you know your self worth no one can take your shine away from you!

It is not about how others see you, it is all about how you see yourself! It is not about confirming to societies perception of happiness or walking in the matrix! It is about breaking the mild and understanding there is only one you!

There is only one chance to shine and make an impact on this world 🌍 so do you and walk with your chest held high!

Walk with that glow, that smile and spread positivity, and glitter everywhere!!!

Offset apologises to Cardi B

So my thoughts well done for apologising πŸ™πŸΎ… But things are never the same after your trust has been broken! People make mistakes I get that but own it! Cheating is a choice, it shows weakness and often a lack of respect… some are just not satisfied with what they have and are willing to risk everything if they can get away with it… speaking from experience it breaks you as a person is it worth your sanity??

Love yourself!

This strikes a cord with me!

No one should test someone’s love so much that it becomes an endurance test.

I think when you finally love yourself and understand your place and worth on this earth everything becomes clear!

Love should not be determined by how much someone is willing to tolerate from someone but it should be a healthy balance, a healthy relationship. What you give you should be getting back.

Never take shit from someone you are worth so much more!

If a relationship is draining You then think if it is worth it? Love can also be walking away!

Preserving your sanity your morals understanding your self worth but also helping that person understand what they are doing or the way they are treating you or the way they think love/ a relationship should be is not how you feel it should be!

Love yourself first

XxX

What is motherhood?

How lovely and how true!

Children remember the time and the adventures spent together.

Okay I can admit what child does not appreciate the material gestures.

What child does not enjoy a few healthy meals here and there or would not live a new car!

A clean home? well some children appreciate while others, well I think with others we can see how important cleaning is when we look in their bedrooms .

Of course we want a clean home and for our children to eat healthy nutritious meals.

We want to educate them, we are invested in their learning.

We want them to have the best things or their every desires.

But I can tell you some of our greatest memories as a family are our trips, adventures quality time spent together.

It costs nothing to share time, love advice, explore go on adventures.

I call these precious moments building memories!

Focusing on building memories rather than a child’s collection of material possessions, or expensive holidays is far more beneficial and rewarding.

Do not get me wrong a holiday, clean home, smart children is important lessons and teachings for a child but do not forget the simple things such as giving your time because time can not be taken back. We do not know what tomorrow holds so live every day as if it were your last and stop, slow down and just chill with your children.

Listen to them more, allow them to see you slow down take a breath and see you more.

What is motherhood? Motherhood is love and a precious gift of life. It is a journey it is about building memories.

We are not in competition with each other so do not compare or compete with others build your own memories and enjoy your journey.

Remember to stay blessed and fabulous!

Life changes! No regrets no surrender!

Making life changes need not be scary! It should be a positive move in your life!

Congratulations on taking steps to change and empower yourself! Taking charge of your life is the most courageous thing you could do.

We must be excited and hungry for change! We should always be wanting to change the game! Accept un planned change as well embrace that the universe or god has a different plan for you what ever or who ever you believe in understand that that awful saying “everything happens for a reason!” Is in fact true.

But planned change is always easier to accept and be proud of!

Go make some life changes today x